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Preferred Etiquette


I have had the fortune to meet wonder and caring folks throughout the years however I've been asked to share a few of my favorite etiquette tips. Its common sense tid bits and nothing most have not already abide by, just a friendly reminder.


-- Please use hygiene products, showers alone do not prevent naturaly occuring body odors.

-- I appreciate Cologne, deodorant and scented creams or lotions.

-- Do not neglect your anus or manly under carriage, it requires soapy scrubbing friction, same for your manly member.

-- Complete shaving is not necessary though a trim is appreciated. Especially if there is full body hair.

-- Oral hygiene is a bonus, if chewing gum is needed, thats fine.

-- I may need to provide additional cleaning to continue out meeting however if it is too much, I will have no choice but to end our session.

Let's continue to put our best foot forward!


When Booking your InCall:

• I have fully automated the online scheduling process which is preferred. It convinently connects you to my calender, collects deposit and immediately sends us both confirmation notices!

We all love the texting to make sure our schedules align however I am rarely "available now". I prefer to account for traffic and include my time to get ready. I would love to live in my incall location but for those who've meet me, thats just not possible.


When Booking your OutCall:


• Same as above, keep in mind, I will be traveling. I only ask for a few security and safety measures:

  • Please provide parking or clear parking instructions, I want to be as discrete as possible and do not wish to alert your neighbors.

  • Please stow away any firearms, knifes or instruments that you would not want company to be wary of.

  • Please be at your door to see me in.

  • Always have your gift ready for me, preferrably in the restroom area, this is self explanatory.

  • For private homes and residence, please angle your security cameras in a direction that keeps our meeting discrete.

  • Please allow me space to comfortably place my belongings down.


  • Stow away your personal devices.

  • For hotels, please no personal recording and keep discussions as coded as possible, the hotel is likely recording us.

  • I love becoming refreshed after a fun time, I welcome an audience and if you require a spare set of hands, I will be that set for you. Otherwise, feel assured I will see myself out with out any issues.


Multi Hour session:


When I'm hosting, I will never say no to a thoughtful gift. That said beverages must be individually packaged, same for food- burgers are for in restaurant eating only, and THC products. I appreciate all your efforts but I don't wish to stress anyone during this magical time together.


• Please greet me with a big ole hug and kiss on the cheek.


• Please no hands in your pockets.

• Remove hats and glasses off upon entering.

• Place your belongings in my cubbie, recording devices, smart watches and rings and backpacks. Same as above.


• Multiple endings are welcome but only if that is your wish. This part is customizable and I welcome discussing.


• Please whisper your desires into my ear, as I find it beyond sexy and I appreciate this topic be heard only by me.


When Friends host:

Please do not be offended when I say, multi hour sessions are not the time to attempt a marathon on continual inter*****.

I am a human being, I want to make your dreams come true but I can only take so much.


• Same as above


• Respect the need to keep activities covered and fun.


• No violent acts in or out the bedroom.


• Endless acts are not possible, please respect breaks.


• Individually packaged drinks and snacks appreciated.


• I respect your space and if you feel inclined to partake in recreational treats, understand I may not join.



Fly Me To You:

Now its getting interesting! I love FMTY, we can really enjoy our time together but this is a very tricky arrangement. This is a great time to set out expectations and continue enjoying each other for adventures to come!


• This is a very anxiety provoking part, SCHEDULING, there is no option for this we have to discuss this together.


• I prefer to do a Video call to discuss the boring yet important, logistics.


• Once we agree on the dates, depending on the length of event ( 3 days, 5days or 10days) a deposit is required to hold your appointment.


• I send print screens of flights for reimbursement (travel fee not provided on my menu, as they vary).


• Please provide the hotel, Airbnb or Home location. This is require by customs, lets prevent delays.


• Payment in full is required before I board the flight. Traveling with cash is another activity that gets people in trouble at the airport. I will provide a Video Call from with in the airport and to confirm my departure.


• Failure to pay your session in full before boarding flight will be considered a cancellation. No redund is provided for such last minute inconvenience.


• Same as above regarding negative activities, items and non stop activities.


• I enjoy eating and filtered water it does not have to be name branded or restaurant for every meal. We can go to a market and shop and prepare our own meal. It's the best part of any trip!


• I require an hour break to recharge, take a nap if we have been out in the sun or to check in with my parents. They are elderly and worry.


• I require 8hrs of uninterrupted sleep, if we share the same bed:

  • Cuddles are welcome

  • Interc*** can wait for the morning.

  • If you prefer to sleep alone, I only ask there be a separate bed for me to sleep, twin size is fine.


If this is a work trip, I want you to have an amazing time and only ask that your let me know. I will not take it personally if you need privacy for work calls or to check in with family. I will excuse myself and give you space.


• Pampering each other is wonderful, I love an in home spa day. I am a Massage Therapist and can relax the heck out of you! I just need to buy the supplies there, these items draw suspicion for some reason.


• If you want to treat me to a spa day, yes please, I love self care and welcome the effort. I'm a good teacher and would love for you to test your technique on me.


• Every company trip has a bond building exercise, sometimes that includes sharing eachothers company. I will gladly blend in the background or hype everyone up for a fun gathering, also am open to more group fun- if thats what you like. That's the beauty of traveling with an open minded woman.


Our session is coming to an end and its time for me to depart. Please send me off with a big old hug and kiss! I will likely be shaking and need your affection to caring me home.


• I will text you I'm home safe and sound.

• Please leave me a review on ULS or TER, it helps raise awarness of my professional meetings and organizational skills. Plus, you will likely be the determining factor for a frightful person to try my appointment for themselves. Thank you for alleviating anothers anxiety.


• I love to keep things light and fun through Signal App to catch up and keep the line of communication open in between bookings. If a Friend expressly indicates they will be the one's to reach out, I will respect their privacy and will not take it personally.

I rarely initiate communication with a Friend unless it’s to let them know I’ll be in their city or I am available .



I think it goes with out saying, no person enjoys being harrassed.

I do not appreciate being slandered and bullied online! If you are unsatisfied with your session, I understand the need to leave a review with your feedback.

What I do NOT appreciate is catfishing me or my client/Friends to gain access to me or violently harass them online. Carrot-Dangling me as this catfish to steal my time and energy. Pretend to schedule a FMTY under false pretenses and became upset when your payment is due in full and not have the money for your session.

Endlessly harassing me online claiming I do not follow through with (unpaid) appointments.

*This is unacceptable behavior from either Ladies or Gentlemen.


I update this list from time to time as need.

 
 
 

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